I know... Your boy is hitting or biting or scratching or grabbing or spitting or yelling or swearing or pushing or pulling or WHATever. And you’ve tried EVERYTHING. You started with asking him politely to stop. Then a little louder. And then you had to scream because it was the only way he would listen. And he did stop. You felt badly about having yelled, but it worked, so...well… What are you gonna do?

But then it happened again. And again. You turned to rewards thinking that it would encourage your boy to mellow out, use kind words, keep his hands to himself. I’m guessing he didn’t make it to the finish line… Or if he did, he took the prize and then went back to his regular old “inappropriate behavior” self.

What now? He can’t be hurting others! Certainly not physically. And not with words either. That’s it! As much as you didn’t want to have to punish him, there was just nothing left to try.




And after all that yelling, how’s his behavior?

And how are YOU feeling?

Now you’re beginning to wonder whether there might be something seriously wrong with your boy. If he’s like this now, what’s he going to be like when he gets to high school! It feels like he’s slipping away.

And your parenting confidence is, I’m guessing, somewhere down in the basement. With every step out into public comes anxiety. You’re sure everyone’s dreading your son’s arrival, and gossiping about what a crappy parent you must be to let your boy behave “that way.” And home isn’t much better. Sibling struggles. Little cooperation. Lack of respect. Criticism from family.


Listen. There is another way. A peaceful way that is effective and leaves you feeling proud of your parenting. It’s simpler than you can possibly imagine. And I want to teach you. 

So, what do you get?

Practical solutions!

"Out with aggression!” is an online course designed to help you help your boy stop his aggressive behaviors and lift your parenting confidence. (I think I already said that somewhere, but I want to make sure you’re with me here because I mean business!)

It’s like me holding your hand and guiding you from where you are to where you long to be. It will help you put the peaceful back into your parenting… and your boy.

“Out With Aggression” includes:

•  5 modules of bite-sized videos that will inspire you to take action, one tiny step at a time

• Practical exercises that even a busy parent can find time for

• 2 amazing bonus modules

• Newly added bonuses on handling sibling struggles & cooperation (or lack there of ;)

• Printouts to remind you of key points

• Immediate, lifetime 24/7 access (via username and password) to all modules & bonuses

• All downloadable content, so you can access the content wherever, whenever

• 30 day 100% money-back guarantee

Remember that sweet boy of yours? He’s still in there. And we’re gonna dig him out!


  • Tosha Schore, Author & Parenting Coach

    Tosha Schore, Author & Parenting Coach

    Your Partner In Parenting

    And I want you to feel hopeful about your son’s ability to make good choices, solve conflicts peacefully, conquer his fears, and reach his full potential.I have lived in that place of worry and fear for my sons’ future, and it sucked! I made it my business to learn all I could about parenting, and to get the hell out of that hopeless place as quickly as possible.There’s nothing special about me. True, I've written a book, coached loads of parents, and shared my knowledge on many a podcast and online summit, and in newspapers and magazines online and off.But I don’t have any super powers. I just discovered some simple tools that allowed me to move my boys beyond their aggressive behaviors. And I felt so amazed by the process that I became a certified trainer of Hand in Hand Parenting and began helping other parents do the same.I now know that my boys are just fine, and if I can spread the message that boys are good, and that it is our responsibility to learn how to support them well, life for boys (and with boys) will be sooo much better. This knowledge has empowered me to teach parents what’s really going on with our boys, and how to meet them where they are, hold high standards for them, and hold them close as they make their way through their struggles.I look around me at the men I meet and I don’t see a lot of joy. Many seem to have fallen into jobs/careers/roles that others expected of them- either their families or cultures. Most do not make spending time with their families a priority – either because they’re carrying huge financial burdens, or they don’t know how to play, be still, be close, relax. Many are without networks of close friends, are lonely and unhappy, and use alcohol, drugs or porn to numb the pain, rather than express their feelings fully. I don’t want this future for my boys or yours.I read the newspaper and it’s full of men perpetuating all sorts of violence. I believe we can do better for our boys. That does not have to be their future.Knowledge is really power, and together we can harness that power and make real change in the lives of our boys, our families, and our world!The future holds much beauty and goodness! I hope you’ll join me on this journey towards more joy, play and laughter at home, and more peace in the world.

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Course curriculum

  • 1
    Welcome to "Out With Aggression!," a step-by-step practice to stop your boy's aggressive behaviors and lift your parenting confidence!
    • Bookmark your login page now!
    • Tech support
    • Grab my book
    • Quiz yourself if you'd like... (I promise you'll get 100%!)
  • 2
    Step 1: Set yourself up for success.
    • VIDEO - Let's get you into good parenting shape!
    • EXERCISE - What happens inside me?
    • EXERCISE - What I appreciate about myself
    • READ - "Listen" Chapter 1
    • VIDEO - Plan for change
    • EXERCISE - Plan for change
    • VIDEO - Truths about your boy
    • PRINTOUT - Truths about your boy
    • VIDEO - Reframing aggression so you can find the strength to help your sweet boy
    • READ - "Listen" Chapter 12
    • VIDEO - Brain (very) basics
    • VIDEO - The power of BIG emotions!
    • PRINTOUT - Target, connection!
    • Read - "Listen" Chapter 2
    • VIDEO - Guess what? You're the adult!
    • READ - "Listen" Chapter 7
    • PRINTOUT - Myth buster!
    • PRINTOUT - Tips & tricks
    • Quiz yourself if you'd like...
  • 3
    Step 2: Infuse connection.
    • VIDEO - What you wish for your boy
    • EXERCISE - What you wish for your boy
    • VIDEO - What NOT to do (Part I)
    • VIDEO - What NOT to do (Part II)
    • VIDEO - How to do Special Time
    • VIDEO - Making Special Time work for you
    • VIDEO - How to introduce Special Time to your boy
    • VIDEO - Finding the time and space for Special Time
    • EXERCISE - Special Time Scheduler
    • VIDEO - What happens when Special Time ends?
    • VIDEO - When your boy always wants to do the same thing for Special Time
    • Read - "Listen" Chapter 3
    • Quiz yourself if you'd like...
  • 4
    Step 3: Play detective
    • VIDEO - You know more than you think you do!
    • EXERCISE - Scan your week
    • Quiz yourself if you'd like...
  • 5
    Step 4: Set limits like a superhero! (Don't worry! I'll show you how.)
    • VIDEO - Why limits are important
    • VIDEO - The power of BIG, GIGANTIC feelings!
    • PRINTOUT - What to say when your boy is wildly upset
    • READ - "Listen" Chapter 4
    • VIDEO - Setting Limits Step 1: LISTEN
    • VIDEO - Setting Limits Step 2: LIMIT
    • VIDEO - Setting Limits Step 3: LISTEN
    • VIDEO - When you don't get there in time
    • VIDEO - When your boy's behaviors scare you
    • READ - "Listen" Chapter 5
    • Quiz yourself if you'd like...
  • 6
    Step 5: Play like your life depends on it - 'cause it kinda does...
    • VIDEO - Creating closeness through play
    • VIDEO - Using play in response to aggressive behaviors
    • READ - "Listen" Chapter 6
    • Quiz yourself if you'd like...
  • 7
    Putting the pieces together
    • VIDEO - Putting the pieces together
    • READ - "Listen" Chapter 8
  • 8
    Bonus module! Interviews with great thinkers.
    • BONUS INTERVIEW! - Patty Wipfler, my mentor and my co-Author of "Listen: Five Simple Tools to Meet Your Everyday Parenting Challenges" talks with me about the state of boys.
    • BONUS INTERVIEW! - Me picking Dr. Tina Payne Bryson's brain about brain science and parenting boys.
    • BONUS INTERVIEW! - Dr. Lawrence Cohen says, "Connect, connect, connect!"
    • BONUS INTERVIEW! - David Clifford shares his passion and insight on educating our boys.
  • 9
    Bonus module! Getting your partner on board. Case studies.
    • Case study #1
    • Case study #2
    • Case study #3
    • Case study #4
    • Do you and your partner need to be on the same page to parent successfully?
  • 10
    Bonuses, bonuses, bonuses!
    • Bonus course! Parenting Boys Peacefully: A 10-Day Reconnect!
    • Download Your 10-Day Reconnect Checklist
    • Bonus audiobook! Get your boy to listen: 5 Simple Steps
    • Bonus training! Strategies for nurturing strong sibling relationships

Out With Aggression is for parents, grandparents and caregivers of young boys (2ish-10ish).

It's for you if you...

  • Are worried about your boy’s anger, his fears, his future
  • Are done with punishing and bribing, but don’t know what else to try
  • Want to stop yelling
  • Love your boy to death, but are struggling to enjoy him
  • Are on information overload, and just want someone to tell you what to do
  • Appreciate theory, but really need practical solutions - like yesterday!
  • Have let your own needs slide because all your energy is going towards damage control
  • Are generally overwhelmed and not having much fun parenting

But you also

  • Believe that change is possible, even though it might not feel that way
  • Are committed to working hard to get the results you want
  • Are willing to experiment with new strategies, even though some may be outside your comfort zone
  • Are brave, forward thinking, and ready to smile and laugh again!

How do you get in on the action?

Just click below!

You'll get everything I’ve outlined above, including instant lifetime access to the 5 core step-by-step modules, and the 2 bonus modules. Plus, I stand behind my 30-day money-back guarantee.

Got questions?

Let me help!

What ages is this appropriate for?

My focus here is on ages 2-10, but no child is too young or too old to benefit from what you’ll learn.

What if I have girls too?

Fabulous! Please practice these techniques with all your kids! Your family and the world will become more peaceful places.

What if my boy has special needs?

I created this course with a neurotypical child in mind, as this is where my expertise lies. Parents of children with special needs can benefit greatly from this course, but you may need to modify the practices as you deem fit. 

What if my partner’s not on board?

Fine. Don’t worry about it for now. One of my bonus modules will boost your confidence about parenting from different pages.

How long will the course take to complete?

You will have 5 weekly modules to complete, but access forever. You may find you zoom through Module 1, but want to take 2 weeks on Module 2 before jumping into Module 3. Or the other way around. You decide what pace works for you. The information is all at your fingertips.

How quickly will I see results?

This really depends on you, your boy, and what's going on in your life right now. As with everything, the more you put in, the quicker you will benefit.

If you take my hand as I guide you through, step-by-step, you will likely see signs of change very quickly. 

Please understand, though, that this course is a practice. I teach you specific strategies to use with your boys (and girls too, if you have them), with the intention of you adopting them as your default parenting tools. We’re in this parenting thing for the long haul. This is no sprint.

Can I access everything right away, or do I have to wait?

You will have immediate access to all modules. No waiting!

What if I purchase the course, and then decide it’s not for me?

Because I know my practice will get you results, I give you a 30-day 100% money back guarantee. No refunds after 30 days.

What if I have a question?

I'm here to answer!

Email me at questions@toshaschore.com

What's the financial investment?

One easy payment of $497

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Say YES to peace!


Love Notes

“I feel more knowledgeable about what my son is going through when he expresses angry words or has aggressive behaviour, and feel so much better equipped with how to handle these situations.”

Happy Parent!Happy Parent!

“It helped to change my perspective and to see my son in a different light. It also helped knowing that we aren't alone in the struggle.”

Another happy parent!Another happy parent!

“I am now finding the joy in parenting again and am no longer in constant damage control. Our family unit ”

And another happy parent feeling so much better!And another happy parent feeling so much better!

Let's do this together!

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More Love Notes

“I feel I am now able to undertake the best job in the world with knowledge and confidence and not dread the day ahead.”

This could be you!This could be you!

“Being home (with my son) and enjoying it, feeling safe and cozy and connected, is priceless. I'm grateful I have found you!”

I'm tearing up!I'm tearing up!

“(Tosha) delivers her assistance with a powerful combination of humour and caring that amounts to highly useful guidance. You won't find a smarter, more energetic parenting coach than Tosha Schore.”

Now I'm blushing!Now I'm blushing!

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